Problem Avoidance
In the short term, a muzzle, crate or indoor kennel
or an outdoor kennel/outbuilding allows you to side-step the problem for brief periods,
whilst you apply the psychological strategy outlined below. Be sure to only use an
adequately-sized indoor kennel (an indoor crate provides a secure den
associated with pleasure and security - it should not be used as a punishment cell) or
well-fitting muzzle as recommended by your veterinary surgeon.
Before Leaving
Most of us are especially affectionate and
apologetic before leaving our dog alone with such words as "Be a good boy",
"I wont be long" etc. Stop this, and be off-hand and rejecting, thereby
reducing the contrast between your presence then imminent absence, otherwise the dog will
feel desolate on your departure.
Avoid Routine
Be unpredictable so that your dog doesnt know
your next move. Sometimes leave the house wearing indoor clothes, by different routes, or
return as though to collect a forgotten item. Having a routine before leaving simply
hightens your dogs anxiety to a crescendo.
Creature Comforts
Your dog needs reminding of your presence during
your absence : leave items of your warm clothing, your usual radio or TV channel on, a
light, local heat, perhaps access to a favourite chair or bed. Record family activity and
leave it playing whilst you are out. The more normal, the better.
Desensitisation
For some dogs, separation from you is like a
phobia, irrational and dramatic. Damage usually occurs immediately after departure of the
owner, when anxiety is at its highest, both from suddenly being alone and in anticipation
of a long separation. Formal desensitization involves exposure to brief periods of
separation, then of gradually increasing duration according to their degree of tolerance
on the earlier trial. The theory is simple, but the practice more difficult, as their
toleration of particular intervals of separation will vary from day to day. Keep careful
records, noting the date, time and duration of tolerated versus non-tolerated separation.
Build on small successes and dont go too fast.
Punishment
The worst single action by an owner of a
destructive dog is to return and punish, or even scold the miscreant. Either do nothing,
or be your usual charming self.
Time in Contract
Try not to permit your dog to follow you from room
to room when at home. Allocate some 30% of your time together, with the door closed
between you and him. Always be cool or rejecting as you close the door, but warm on
reunions.
The General Relationship
To an extent, you are to blame for creating the
excessive dependence of your dog. Be less indulgent, have him on your knees less etc. This
is known as cooling the relationship off. A good analogy is that of the 15 year old school
boy with a crush on his teacher. The best way to put him off is to be cool and distant.
You want your dog to become more emotionally independent and confident, and less dependent
on you.
Drugs
Occasionally, anti-anxiety drugs are helpful in the
short term treatment of destructive behaviour. However, this is rare, and you should
consult your veterinary surgeon.